Sunday, August 17, 2025

SKOOL DAZE

 I left California when I was in my early thirties. Transplanted myself in the Missouri Ozarks, West Texas, and now Tennessee.

When I abandoned California, I was really surprised to learn that school started in August in many places. I consider August to be the pinnacle of summer. School?? Never!
When I was a kid in Southern California school always started in mid-September, usually around the 15th. September in Southern Cal is almost always the hottest month of the year. Blisteringly hot.

 I vividly remember the September when I started seventh grade. I was only eleven years old (I began first grade at the age of four - - at Rutgers Prep, the posh private school in New Jersey). 

My seventh grade school was Dale Junior High in Anaheim, California. The first day that school started there was a horrific heat wave. The brutal desert Santa Ana winds blew in and the temperature soared to 115 degrees (Fahrenheit). It stayed that way for nearly a week.

Dale Junior High as it looks today.
There were absolutely no trees around when I attended school there - only a few palm trees across the street.

 

Back then in ancient times, nobody catered to kids. Despite the searing heat, the schools never shut down. I had to walk over two miles (one way) to school. No buses on my route. No rides. 

The heat was so intense that we really didn't have any constructive classes. There was no air-conditioning. Our teachers would open the doors and all the windows and turn out the lights. We'd swelter in a dark classroom, using wet paper towels to try to keep cool.

I think walking home was the worst part. I was so desperately dehydrated that I nearly passed out. If you think 100 degrees is hot, you should experience 115 on a long walk when you're eleven years old.

Come to think of it - during all my school years, I never rode the bus. I always walked - from second grade through my senior year.

Change of subject, sort of

I also never ate in the school cafeteria, not once. I always brought my lunch. In second grade I had a "farmer" lunch pail. It was shaped like a barn. Later I progressed to a Flintstones lunch box (heaven help us). After that, my mind's a blank. I think I brought all subsequent lunches in a brown paper bag.


A rather unflattering photo of me, probably age six, in Glendora, California -  showing off my new barnyard lunch pail (was my hair really that light?).

I didn't look like a child when I was six. I resembled a CEO or something. The children at Rutgers Prep in NJ were dressed meticulously. In California it was  more casual.....

....but Dale Junior High had a strict dress code when I was there.

Years later, when I was a student piano teacher in behalf of Cypress College, two of my young pupils were brothers who attended Dale Junior High. The crime in that school was so rampant that their mother removed them from Dale JH and placed them in a Catholic school.

Nowadays anything goes. Kids show up in schools with tattoos, nose rings, tattered jeans - - and that's just the girls.

Civil society has diminished into absolute trash.

Jon 💚  yearning for the old days


Afterthought

Ever since I (erroneously) announced that my blog would be discontinued, readership dwindled. The general consensus was that I'd croak and be done with.

My blog post reruns (like this one) seem to inspire even more of a mass exodus.

But I plan to remain, eternally bewitching you with my mesmeric magic.

I can't resist.


 

31 comments:

  1. Thank you for writing. I don’t usually comment, but I always read your posts. Thank you. ❤️

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  2. I like California always did, but it sure doesn't sounded anymore like a good state to be in any more. I planned to move there once my family is all passed on, but I plan to stay in the beautiful East Coast. Between the soaring prices of, well, everything, earthquakes, the odd weather anomalies they get, and the constant wildfires, I don't see much use to moving there. Besides everyone I now know vacated the state just about.

    Glad to see you still here too. The last post I read was your final post when I was away. So glad to see this pop up before I leave again! Take care.

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    1. Southern Calif. was truly a paradise when we first moved there. I vowed that I'd never leave. Eventually it began to deteriorate and all the best parts turned to trash. I saw the handwriting on the wall....I wouldn't recomending moving there now.

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  3. It seems so wrong to start school in August. Here it's at least after Labor Day. That seems better. But there's often a September heatwave anyway.

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    1. August is just about mid-summer. It is a sin to send kids that early. After Labor Day is good enough.

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  4. I, too, had to bike or walk to school ... usually a mile. But never under those horrific weather conditions! What, did the school board think it made children tougher? I shudder to think what my educators must think of the way today's kids dress for school. 100% what you said about civil society today.
    To have lived back then and remember...we're the lucky ones.

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    1. In retrospect, it's a crime to make kids go to school when it's 115 degrees. I'm surprised I survived. It's probably different now.
      I'm certain that dress codes nowadays would infringe on student's rights.
      Glad I remember when life was civil.

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  5. "The general consensus was that I'd croak and be done with."

    This isn't what I was thinking. Though I have to admit, I am hoping for an entertaining roomate just for the blog posts. I hope he is a clown!

    This is a repeat? I don't remember it. You look like my nephew here.

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    1. I posted this on my old Texas blog Lone Star Concerto. I revised it slightly today.
      My roommate is ancient and quiet. The nurses have to feed him.

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  6. Glad to see you back. I had read you were discontinuing blogging...so I left, too. Oops. Glad I just happened to check in.
    I graduated from a private Catholic school. Ok, I'm dating myself here...but this is when nuns wore the whole shebang.... habits down to the floor and rosaries swinging from the belt. I was lucky and had some really cool nuns as teachers. This was late 60's. Vatican II blew in and habits blew off shortly after. I heard a number of years later many of those nuns left the order. One of my fav's bailed out, got married and was working the crap tables in Vegas! I had to wear a uniform (jacket, white shirt and tie). Very formal in those days. Then I went graduated from a Catholic college. By then it wasn't much different than any other university. I was definitely doing my 'thing' by then. LOL.
    That lunch box was really cool. Could bring a nice penny on eBays these days!
    Welcome home, Jon.
    Paranormal John

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    1. Most of my cousins went to Catholic schools and I remember when the nuns changed their habits (no pun intended).
      Wow, from a nunnery to a Vegas crap table. That's a real story to tell.
      Yup, I've decided to continue blogging. Glad you stopped by.

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  7. Sorry, my computer glitched (see above comment) . I was trying to say thank you for continue to write your blog posts.. I am one of the 3..smile.. that read it every time, although I don't comment often. This was a very interesting story, as you know schools start real early here. My sister's grandchildren started July 30th this year.. ridiculous!! I'm looking forward to your next post!!Take care Jon. Hugs, Louise

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    1. I'm truly glad you're here, Louise - even if you don't comment. I often read blogs and don't leave comments.
      I'll keep blogging - - mostly because I enjoy it. Take care.

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  8. I check your blog often to see if you've posted. I really enjoy reading you—even the repeats.
    Some parts of Tennessee have started going back to school at the end of July or the beginning of August, which just feels way too soon.

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    1. It's really a shame to force children back to school in the middle of summer. I think early Sept. is a more rational time.
      I'm so glad you enjoy my posts. Thank you, Jane!

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  9. I lived in San Diego as a child. I remember the school classrooms opened onto a large veranda. School starts here the day after Labor Day, unless it's on a Friday or Saturday. It's always been that way. I'm happy to see you have decided not to disappear. I enjoy reading your blog.

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    1. It's much better to have school start after Labor Day. I feel sorry for the kids who have to go in August.
      Thanks, Sandra.

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  10. Jon,
    Don't you dare discontinue your blog! You hear me? By the way, this is the first time I've read this accounting of your school days. Very interesting! I think I'll do one myself. Isn't it interesting though that you can remember some things in great detail but other things, a complete blank? Same here! Just a real quick preview of my first school days, I began first grade when I was five years old. Actually I was to begin kindergarten but my Mother didn't know there was a kindergarten. Thus by that one quirk, the direction of my whole life changed. I've often wondered what my life would have been like had I not been one of the last graduating classes of the Fifties (DHS Class of 1959) and instead DHS Class of 1960. My class was also the last one of the old classic high school building. The DHS Class of 1960 was the first in the new (for then) modern high school building. I'm glad I was in the last class of the Fifties though. Your post has prodded a lot of old memories which I will post about. At least those that I can remember and not the blanks, which there are plenty.
    Keep posting Jon!!!!! Don't you dare stop posting. By the way, I think we bloggers are a dying bred. I don't know that people blog these days. It's all Tik Tok and the latest fad.
    Ron

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    1. You always appreciate me, Ron. We've known each other for a long time via blogging and I think we are a lot alike.
      As for school, I think kindergarden is a complete waste of time - it's a good thing we skipped it. When we moved to California, the school board in Glendora thought I was too young for second grade and tried to force me back to first. My mother fought the battle and won. I was allowed to be enrolled in 2nd grade. A lot of school memories, Ron.
      And I will continue blogging. 😸

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  11. Oh for the good old days of school.
    Loved to learn and liked most of my teachers in grade school, didn’t care much for the bullies. I too walked to school as my grandmother always made sure we lived within walking distance of a school.
    We moved often, but lived primarily in the city of Orange in California. I went to Prospect school for kindergarten, and grades 3 thru 6, Jordan for kindergarten and the first months of First grade. (had to repeat kindergarten because I was a year younger than allowed) Then two Catholic parochial schools, Holy Family for the rest of first grade, and then La Purisima for grades 7 & 8. In 1971 we had moved to Palm Springs to manage a motel on East Mel Ave and I went to Katherine Finchey Elementary.
    Went to a Christian school in Orange for 9th grade and then dropped out only to go attend Hillview Continuation HS in Santa Ana/Tustin class of 82.
    You mention lunch pails, I had several as mine always seemed to get stolen. I had a blue plaid one, the Disney character bus, Lost in Space and Star Trek all stolen and now worth beaucoup buck$ !
    As far as air conditioning we had it in Orange but it was used sparingly due to the energy crises and inflation of the 1970’s. They would leave doors and windows open at Prospect and run fans.
    You could hear no nonsense Mrs Miller in the next classroom yelling at her students as they raised hell, and then the slam of her ruler on a desk to get their attention. Palm Springs had a/c and it ran constantly, it had to in that desert heat ! Not to mention the kids that went there. One had a grandfather who had been a Senator, the kid talked about living in DC, and another had a father who was a diplomat from India, she knew judo and would flip kids over her shoulder that bullied her ! We had dress codes at all my schools as well. Unreal what some kids wear to school these days, but then we had a few crazy ones too. One girl wore heavy makeup, tube tops, short shorts, clogs, lots of jewelry and a patchwork fun fur all this at age 12 !!! When one of my aunts saw her my aunt thought she was a hooker !
    -Rj

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    1. Yes, those good ol' days of school. I wasn't familiar with the schools in Orange. The only other junior high I remember in Anaheim was the Walt Disney School. None of the schools that I attended had air conditioning. You were fortunate.
      In seventh grade I was bullied a lot because I was young and very timid. By the time I was in ninth grade we moved to Corona in Riverside County. It was a quiet little town back then. Now it's a big city. I enjoyed your school memories. Thanks for sharing them!

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  12. In the 70s in Tennessee, we started after Labor Day and didn’t get out till June. I didn’t have many good school years. Home life was difficult at times. I wasn’t good in sports, but I could sing. I sang in all the choirs throughout the years. A few times near Christmas in Jefferson City the symphony choir performs with the symphony. Sometimes it’s in Latin. I thoroughly enjoy singing in a foreign language. I digress.. Jon, continue writing to us. I don’t have notifications, but I have you saved in my iPhone and I check you daily.

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    1. I can identify with your home life. My father was always abusive. We obviously put up with a lot when we were kids. I like singing but was never in a choir. I HATED sports and physical education.
      I'm glad you're still visiting my blog, Gabrielle. I'll continue writing.

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  13. Back again because you missed us, Jon? As you can see from the comments, your faithful few and mire are back as well. School days were not my happiest, but at least the heat was bearable. I attended parochial school through high school and on the east coast (NJ) school started after Labor Day, so by early Sept. I also walked to and from grade school, a mile plus, except on bad weather days when my mother drove me. There was no school bus. High school was several towns away and public transit (bus) was used then. Mist if my high school classmates grew up in the same town and so there were the usual clique groups and my 4 years could not end soon enough, thankfully I had a few friends who were also outcasts from other towns and we managed to get through and I am still in contact with a couple after all these years, ironically one is living in CA.

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    1. Yes, I missed all of my blogger friends - - and I'm addicted to writing. It's what keeps me sane (or at least partially sane).
      It's a shame that you had to journey to a different town for high school.....but at least you had some "outcast" friends.
      Thanks for continuing visiting my blog!

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  14. My school days were some of my happiest times. In England our summer holidays were the month of August through the first weeks of September, never got hot back in those days either. No kindergarten back then, but I started school at the tender age of 4 years old, ( don't ask ).....lol
    Hope you are having a better week Friend.
    Jo

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    1. It must have been nice to enjoy school in England (and with no intense heat). I started school at age four, too, and I'm glad I didn't attend kindergarden.
      Thanks, Jo.

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  15. I’m guilty of not commenting often, but I do read all. I use Feedly to read, so it may not show it for you. Unless I come to comment. Take care, Sheila Y

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    1. Sheila, I am admittedly guilty of reading blogs and not commenting. Sometimes I have a loss of words.

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