Wednesday, November 22, 2023

THANKSGIVING

 

When I was six years old - - almost in Biblical times - - my parents moved from New Jersey to California. Soon afterwards, I began developing alarming medical symptoms. Two prominent Los Angeles doctors said I had leukemia. One of the doctors told my parents that I'd never live to be twelve.

I won't go into the complex details of the difficult proceeding years. My parents finally found a doctor who was hopeful. He put me on strict diets, nutritional supplements, and unconventional medicines and methods. It wasn't a miracle ploy. It took many long years. I survived. 

A thousand years later - - or so it seems - - the doctors at Cookville Medical Center were baffled about what to do. I had a malignant tumor dangerously close to my main artery. If they operated I would bleed to death. In July they sent me to Centennial Medical Center in Nashville. They had no solutions. They said I would die.

Back in Cookeville I endured seven weeks of chemo and radiation therapy, among other grueling things.

A cure? A miracle? I think not. I have always maintained that there are no happy endings. Life isn't a fairy tale.

It is Thanksgiving, and I am extremely thankful to be alive - - and I'm eternally greatful for my past. I've had one heckuva life. There were many unbelievably bad times. But there were also absolutely glorious times. I've had the privilege of experiencing things that some people only dream of. All my memories are gifts.

The future?

Who knows? I have no clue of my fate. I'll look forward to whatever blessings I will be allowed.

Cherish every day no matter what struggles you might be burdened with. Life is a precious gift. Savor it with determination, strength, dignity, and grace. The abundance of good things will nourish you......and perhaps astonish you. 

Have a blessed Thanksgiving.

With love, Jon


P.S. I'm home. I will elaborate about this in future posts. Don't forget me *smile*


35 comments:

  1. Words of wisdom
    Forget you?
    Never!
    Posh & Whiteface said what I’m feeling best
    Purr🧔purr🧔purr
    Love
    Lisa
    salemslot9

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    1. Lisa, that's so sweet. you warmed my heart. Have a purrrfect Thanksgiving to you, Posh, and Whiteface.

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  2. So happy to learn you have made it home Jon, and continued best wishes for your renewed strength and health.
    Wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving, take good care of yourself and take things slowly.
    Hugs,
    Jo

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    1. It feels extremely strange to be home again. I have an enormous amount of things to contend with. My main goal is to regain my strength and walk again. I hope you're feeling better. Have an enjoyable Thanksgiving. Hugs!

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  3. Happy 🦃 to you, Jon, and Bosco as well if he has joined you back home. What a nice way to celebrate the holiday! You certainly do have a lot to be thankful for (as detailed in this post) and have endured much the past and most recently. I hope that being back home will give you even more renewed strength, especially knowing that you now have a blogger community of friends who care about your well being. Please do keep us posted. We're "on the road" visiting family in RI for the holiday. I won't be commenting while away, but will check back when we're home late Sunday.

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    1. I am delighted to be back home, but there's so much to do and to contend with. I decided to leave Bosco with my cousin until I'm settled. Have a fantastic Thanksgiving with your loved ones.

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  4. Home, he says casually! HOME!! is my response. Happy Thanksgiving, and you really model how to appreciate the good stuff and accept the other.

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    1. I'm still too weak to shout - but - - HOME!!! My many life experiences have taught me valuable lessons on how to cope.

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  5. Happy Thanksgiving, Jon.
    Paranormal John

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    1. Thank you John. It is turning cold here with fog and frost. Happy Turkey Day!

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  6. Yours words bring tears to my eyes, Jon. Almost all of Paragraph #6 might well have come out of my own mouth. (Were I as talented a writer as you, that is.)
    I'm so very happy for you, and can't wait to hear more about your long-awaited homecoming.

    PS - For some reason, my comments are disappearing on blogs so I'm trying again.

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    1. A little secret, Myra - I sometimes bring tears to myself. I plan to post a lot more about my homecoming. Bosco is still with my cousin.
      The blogger gremlins always do strange things with comments.

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  7. Congratulations! You are home!
    Happy, happy Thanksgiving, Jon. :)

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    1. It's a very strange but good ferling to be home. I only wish I had my strength back. Have a pleasant holiday!

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  8. Donna, things are so chaotic and unsettled here that I decided to let Bosco stay with my cousin a little while longer.

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  9. This was a wonderful Thanksgiving message. Thank you, Jon!

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  10. I truly have things to be thankful for. It is a humbling feeling. Hugs.

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  11. I'm happy to hear you are home. I imagine it feels good and scary at once.
    Stay warm, keep nourished, it'll all come together in time, I'm sure.
    We're having a small thanksgiving, a duck done Chinese 5 spice roasted, wild rice and a salad. Not exactly minimalist, but smallish.
    I hope yours is happy and peaceful, Jon.
    Stay well, warm and worry free.

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    1. Being home after six long months is great but also a shock. There's a lot to get used to and a lot of work to be done. It's difficult getting around in a walker. I am getting home health care several times a week. Roasted duck with wild rice and salad sounds great to me. Enjoy your Thanksgiving!

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  12. I gave you a shoutout as one of the people I'm thankful to have in my life on Dorothy's blog, since she brought me here. Yay both of you!

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    1. I just read your comment on Dorothy's blog and it really touched my heart. Your caring and thoughtfulness is something for me to be thankful for. Hugs!

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  13. Great news!!!!!! And Happy Thanksgiving to you!!! I bet if feel nice and a relief to be back home and in your own place. Just make sure to not over do it!!! Is your kitty back with you yet??? Here, I ate way to much as usual. It's a happy day....so glad your home.

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    1. It feels really strange to be home after six months. The house is a complete mess and wasps got in through a window that was left open. I got stung when I picked up a blanket!
      Bosco is still with my cousin. I thought it would be best until my place is clean and safe.
      I had enchiladas for Thanksgiving. I saved a turkey's life *smile*

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  14. I am so happy to hear that you are home!! Take it one day at a time Jon. Continued prayers that each day gets easier.

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  15. Thank you, Cheryle - it feels very strange to be home after six long months. I feel exhausted most of the time and have difficulty walking, but I'm managing to do some work. I want to keep moving physically to gain strength. More updates coming soon.

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  16. I'm glad you are home, Jon. And hopefully there will be many good things in store for you! Happy Thanksgiving.

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    1. Thanks, Jenny! I'm still struggling to gain my strength and to walk, but I'm doing quite well considering that I was so sick. It takes time (unfortunately, I'm always impatient).

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  17. A very inspiring Thanksgiving blog Jon. Like you I have led quite an eventful life. Horrible times mixed with fantastic out of this world times. Life continues to be good for me even though I am Bill's full time caregiver now for almost three years. I feel so privileged to have him here with me at home where I can care for him in his final days. Again, like you I treasure each day I am alive.
    Happy Thanksgiving Jon!
    Ron (from Retired in Delaware)

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    1. Hi Ron, it's always good to hear from you. We definitely have a lot to be thankful for, even though our journey through life isn't always easy. I read your recent blog post - and I'm sorry your Thanksgiving was ruined with the toilet episode. These things always happen on holidays or weekends. But I'm glad thongs were finally resolved. Take care and keep in touch. My very best to you and Bill. Hugs!

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    2. "Things", not "thongs". Sorry for the typo!

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  18. Your blog is a beacon of wisdom in the online world.

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    1. I never thought of that description pertaining to myself - - but I truly appreciate it. Many thanks for your comment!

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  19. We, your friends, could never forget you, Jon! :-) (big smile)

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    1. That means a lot to me, Kim! And it's always great to hear from you. Hugs.

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